Love is a wonderful thing. So is marriage. Marriage was created by God to be between a man and a woman to be a lasting permanent bond- spiritually, physically, emotional, and every way between. It is not something to enter in lightly believing that if it doesn't work oh well. I'm not the best person to speak on divorce and young love, but I'm not completely ignorant on the subject. Me and Matt have been dating 4 1/2 years. We love each other. It's so hard to be apart. We want to get married. We don't want to wait, but we understand how stupid it would be to get married this young. We have no money, no permanent jobs, no place to live- it is not wise to get married this young. Understand it tears us apart to not be together. We yearn for each others presence and comfort each second we're apart, but it would be stupid to enter in to the bond of marriage with nothing. It's so hard. I cry constantly because it hurst so bad. Thing is, I'd cry more about all the hardships we'll be facing if we were to get married so soon. Don't be surprised though if I do get engaged soon, but don't be expecting a few months later to hear wedding bells. The bells won't be ringing til a few years later. We may be able to afford an engagement but the marriage portion ain't happening yet..lol. So many times young love is heard of and it's wonderful. It's so strong. So surprisingly true at times. Most people shake it off and say it's not possible, but I'm here to say it is. Marriage though, is not a light thing. It's only meant for when you're ready and it's meant to be permanent. It's such a sacred union- please anyone be smart. Don't take marriage lightly!
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